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Sexy Is Masculine/Feminine
By Ron Kule
Sexy is sexy. Sexy is a viewpoint or an opinion that something seen, heard or experienced has a certain quality about it that makes the viewer feel good about what they're seeing or experiencing. Sexy in this wise is elusive, but good. Sexy can be a figment of another's imagination, as in marketing or advertising. Here is images are creative offspring from creative types hired to make a message that captures attention and sells a product. The viewer is compelled by the images to feel sexy themselves, making them more susceptible to act, to buy the product. I like sexy stuff. To me, sexy is neither masculine nor feminine; it's more about a quality of communication - what is communicated to me and how - which makes me feel I am experiencing an art form. Perhaps that is because I am a creator of fine art and creative writing. When I perceive this quality I call art I think it is sexy, because what is not art to me is decidedly unsexy or neutral at best to me. I have never believed we are our bodies. I do not believe the saying, "We are what we eat." I have an unshakeable knowingness that we are spiritual beings who possess temporarily human bodies and minds; yet, we are separate entities in control our our immortality. With this certainty viewing "sexy" becomes a matter purely of viewpoint or opinion, and these two things are exclusive of each other. Viewpoint is about what you are seeing from where you are viewing it, which determines what you see. For instance, look at a chair nearby you right now. Now get the idea of looking at the same chair as if you were an insect on the floor looking up at the chair. Two different viewpoints defining two different spaces including the same object (chair). Opinion is different than viewpoint. One can have a viewpoint and no opinion about it, but an opinion without a subject matter is impossible. So an opinion is a secondary thought or consideration to the original observation of a space and objects; it's a judgement or evaluation of that space and/or object. As such, "sexy" is simply an opinion. There is also a level of depth to a consideration of what is sexy. A pair of panties lying on a table in a retail store may be considered, if admired for its design, by anyone to be sexy, but add to it another layer of significant thought - like, this panty should would look good on my lover! - and it becomes much more than a sexy item; it becomes sexual. Hot is sexy. What we consider to be "hot" (sexual) can be sexy. But what is "cool" (aloofness) can also be considered sexy. Again, all in the eye of the beholder. Sexy is found much more in "open" societies than in repressed cultures. Given that statement, one could consider that the suppression of culture not only is antipathetic to "sexy" but that it destroys or suppresses sexy. This makes sexy an important ingredient in the lives of a people, if sexy defines in part a cultural experience. Certainly in drab settings without much art present or openly allowed, such as I witnessed behind the Iron Curtain in more than one country, not much existed to be considered sexy. My conclusion herein is that sexy is...good. Sexy is better. Sexy is opinion and it comes in many forms and from many viewpoints that are shared, including bot hmarketing and advertising formats that do indeed make an impression upon me. After all, I like to feel sexy! Doesn't everybody?
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Contributor's Note
Sexy is: things...or attitudes...sexy is only opinion, or is it?
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Thank you for sharing this thought provoking intel, Ron. Sexy is an opinion in the eyes of the beholder, as a lady elegantly dressed, wearing a large broad brimed hat at the Kentucky Derby, could well be concieved as sexy. As well, a man in a neat pinstripe suite,with tie and tails, entering a fine restaurant, could be considered sexy. Just maybe, by the same beholder! This isn't sex, it's sexy! Best wishes. Frederick
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